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How to get back the one you dumped

Honesty is normally the best approach.

How to get back the one you dumped

You tell your partner that you made the biggest mistake of your life, you confess that you realized that after being alone with your thoughts and not reacting to things happening in the relationship you are sure you made a mistake. You will say just about anything to get to see your ex again, How to get back the one you dumped can be tricky, the real deal is you want your ex back, however it is difficult to say you are sorry when you were so sure it was over, however you should.

After the big speech, you do not push or plead, you leave it alone for them to think about, after all you planted a seed, sometimes you need patience for the seed to grow. Just call them up from time to time, quick and easy calls, the ones that say, I care about you. If the person is difficult, it may take time. your ex partner may have rules, principles even and sometimes the impact of the hurt and their attachment style, it may take a while for them to even accommodate the thought of reconciliation, an open-minded approach is what you will need to have because sometimes pride can dictate the future of a relationship that went bad. Your understanding of what you did, good timing, insight, emotion regulation and of course mutuality are some of the things you need to know before thinking about reconciliation. How to get back the one you dumped will require patience.

Do not play games when you mess up, just be honest and vulnerable, it normally works.

When you share your truth with someone, allowing yourself to be vulnerable, there is nothing else you can do but allow patience and time to be the deciding factor to reconciliation. In my years as an experience relationship advisor I believe love is still as perennial as the grass and when two persons approach each other with honesty and openness, it is then that we truly can discover the power of love.

I met with an old couple, my grandfather and grandmother have been together for 76 years, he said these words to me, “Love is very powerful because love gives a person reason to live. I’ve heard that couples’ longevity extended if they are truly in love. Your grandmother and I live for each other. Our love was strong and true in our 76 years of married life. She is gone now, however I am still alive because of the memories of her.”

Tears came to my eyes when he shared his experiences with me and in truth grandma was brought back to life when he shared his stories, she was a wonderful woman. How powerful love is was also emphasized when I met a women who has terminal cancer, and should have been dead years ago. She has an enormous will power to hang on to life, because she is taking care of her son. I have seen too many experiences and heard too many stories not to share with you that giving of yourself to love is setting yourself up for a beautiful and long life.

Once love is your motivation; you will succeed in getting the one you dumped or not, just do your best.


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