There is a song I just enjoyed listening to as a boy, “Love always finds a way” This was done by Peabo Bryan, still a beautiful song if you can find the time to listen.
We are going to go back to 1978, that was a long time ago, back then there was no Social Media, it was just those phones on a stand and most homes did not have phones, so we had to find creative ways of attracting a woman.
Rather than turn a girl on with eye contact, it may simply make her feel uncomfortable. If you want to attract women with your eye contact then you must also project a warm, friendly vibe. And the best way to do this is by smiling with your eyes.
The most important part of attracting women without talking is making quality eye contact with women. When you find yourself making eye contact with a woman, hold her gaze and give her a warm smile. Holding eye contact shows women confidence. Smiling shows her that you’re a warm, friendly guy. Social distancing is in effect, so for now.
Asking for her Number
This is a little trick to get you out of asking for her number. Because straight-up asking “can I have your number?” makes you feel like a child asking a parent for some candy. If she says yes, it’s as if she’s doing you a favour, and if she says no, it’s a hard place to recover from. In either case, it’s not a scenario that generates attraction.
But when you let her know that you’re getting her number, you are directing the interaction. It’s still her decision, but you’re letting her know what you want. That is a very masculine, attractive behaviour (so long as you respect her decision).
Some people call this “assuming the sale” meaning you assume that she will be interested in giving you her number, so you act accordingly by giving her your phone. This supposedly makes it more likely that she will give you her number.
I’m not sure if that is true, but I still recommend this because it guides her to make the decision. Does she want to continue interacting with you in a sexual/romantic/intimate tone? If the answer is yes, she will put her number in your phone. Of course, you will sanitize your phone before putting it to your face, as beautiful as she is, safety first.
She says I have a boyfriend
How to get her interested even under adverse circumstances. I used to think a girl saying “I have a boyfriend” was a dead-end – her way of saying “get away from me.” But that’s not true. In my experience, women have a TON of respect for a guy that comes up to them, starts up a conversation, asks for their number, and remains respectful when they turn him down. If you follow the advice from other blogs that I have written about chivalry you can easily say “well you appear a nice person, and I hope our paths cross again sometime, and you could ask for a Facebook contact or Instagram and if that fails then you tried.
Because it’s not just about navigating your way into her pants. Sex is a wonderful part of the equation, no doubt. But it’s also about being the social, charismatic guy that can adapt to different situations, with the broad goal of making more friends and going on more dates.
In the case of asking for a girl’s number, the point of using this formula is to turn an anxiety-inducing scenario into one that is easy, automatic, and natural. By practising and refining this formula over and over, I’ve gotten to a place where I no longer hesitate to ask for a girl’s number. And I know you can do the same.
After receiving the number
One question that confuses the hell out of a lot of guys (and also confused the hell out of me when I first learned all this sexual Jedi mind power stuff) is how long to wait before calling (or texting) a girl… and how to move things forward towards a date and beyond once you do call her.
You may have heard that you should not be too eager, and you may even have heard about the three-day rule… get in touch with her after three days.
Then again, that one is so common now that a text or call after three days doesn’t surprise anyone anymore…
What’s a man to do? This is how my experience will come in great for you. I was a shy one but behind a phone, I was great, with a calm tone of voice and creativity you can still have the right impact on the girl of your dreams.
Once you can tell that she is much more interested in talking to you, you should slowly become more available to talk to her on the phone and make her a priority. Women love it when you show them that they are important to you, and they will automatically make you more of a priority in their life. You can do this by cancelling a few outings with your friends to stay at home and talk to her on the phone, then of course, in this COVID 19 time what other choice do you have, the point is you are making time to talk with her, this will show how serious you are about her and will help you to win her affections.
Next, once you start to talk more on the phone, you should always try to make the girl talk more about herself. This means that you should be genuinely interested in what she has to say and allow her to talk as much as she wants. Most persons love to talk about themselves and by being a good listener she will love talking to you and connect with you on a deeper level. However, this does not mean that you should just be a passive listener. Instead, actively listen to what she has to say and ask her relevant questions or make comments to show that you are highly engaged with what she is saying. This will indicate that you are highly interested in her as a person and she will grow to connect with you over time.
However, being charming and truly listening to a girl, won’t win her love. You need to connect with her and you can do this by actually opening up and showing her who you are as a person. You have to allow her to know your past, your secrets, your thoughts and your dreams. Sure, it can be difficult to open up if you’re an introverted person, however, you must do this if you want to win the girl’s heart. This is one of the most important things you can do and if she resonates with what you say, then both of you could connect on a deep level.
Lastly, when it comes to getting a girl to fall in love, you need to share your life with her, even if you can only talk to her on the phone. Thankfully, there are many internet-based messaging services like WhatsApp which allow you to chat as well as share video, audio files and pictures. In our days it was just the phone and who knew how to use it was the boss of the time. Instead of always calling her or sending her messages, make sure to also send her cute pictures. For example, you can write her name in the sand along with a message, such as “Good Morning” or “I hope you have an amazing day” and take a picture of it and send it to her. There are many imaginative ways you can use your phone’s camera to send her pictures or videos that she will simply love.
I know this blog was interesting and took you by surprise, go get her even in this difficult time of the coronavirus.